Morgan-
If you figure out how to not care and can bottle it, I'll buy a 5 gallon bucket from ya!

I so feel your pain.
(((morgan)))

I don't have anything constructive to add. My mom spent a good portion of a conversation this evening trying to talk me into moving on. That she would "feel better" if he would just tell me he was done so that I could move on. OR if I would just decide that I am finished and move on. Because she "doesn't want to see me hurt". I told her i am not ready to give up and she said "Well Dr Phil always asks "why are you waiting around to see what this other person is going to do with *your* life?""
*sigh*

I do know it would be easier if I could just move on. Shouldn't we feel admirable for hanging on like pitbulls to our marriages?

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing