Thanks Morgan and OF. You make good points...I'm really getting tired of the neighbors making noise late into the night which is affecting my sleep and my D's. Just slamming doors and drawers till 2am. I keep wishing I was living in a house, I'm not built for apartments anymore. But then the housing market is going down and its probably wiser to wait before I buy something. I've been wanting a nice car for a while too...I know she'll continue the process on her own schedule I don't think I can reverse the course anymore. I've tried DB'ing, I've tried being open with her, she's not changing her mind.
OF, sorry for the confusion. Yes she did file, I just meant if I should let her continue the process (she hasn't done anything other than filing the motion for divorce) or if I should let my lawyer nudge it along.
Me: 32|W: 34|D: 3yo 1st bomb: Feb 2006 (left one day, came back a week later) 2nd bomb: Aug 2006 (moved out, ILYBNILWY) 3rd bomb: Apr 2007 (filed for divorce) 4th bomb: <her finger on the launch button>
