Hope, Hijack away...Yes, your H is crazy. If the dude in Cali turns out to be a flake let me know.
LWB,
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I think of girls all the time, how they have this safe, loving world and H is willing to shake that all up,
Well you should take some comfort from my W. Kids are resilent, they will be fine, this is not a big deal for them. Besides life is going to knock them down from time to time and they need to learn to pick themselves back up. I am kidding... But I am not kidding about my W saying this. Our S's heads so far up the OP a$$ that they are not getting oxygen anymore just toxic gas.
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yes, I have stopped worrying about H's happiness/moods/whatever, and just enjoyed my kids more.
That is all you can do. Be content and happy with yourself and pour what you can into your girls. Seeing mine always puts a smile on my face.
BTW, my threads are your threads stop by when every you want. The only rule I have is that once you have been to my thread once you are nolonger a guest. So you need kick off your shoes and make yourself at home.
Journaling: Last night my girls and I spent the night at my parents house. My girls then spent the day with their Grandma and Papa. For lunch my parents brought them downtown to see me. It was great seeing them in my environment, it was the first time D2 has visited me at work. My mom had them dressed in new outfits that she had bought for them, both of their shirts said "Daddy's Girl". I saw them for about 1 hour while we at pizza.
My W again called a couple of times while I was at work. One of the times she started questioning me about my plans this weekend with our girls. Then tonight she called to apologize for grilling me with questions ealier in the day. She said "after we move out it will be easier for me to let you have your routine with our girls. Right now we are still on top of each other and it is hard". She also said "I know that they are cared for well with you and have no concerns in that regard. This is just another area that I have to get used to". Positive?Negative? Who really knows....
After I got my girls home tonight we popped in a DVD(Annie) and ate popcorn, until my girls bedtime. I am still going to miss my nightly routine with them. While carrying D5 to bed she said "Daddy I really love you". I know that she does, but, it still feels good when she tells me out of the blue like this.
Tomorrow, because my W is bringing our girls out to her sisters house, I will be home alone. I do not have any plans yet but I will think of something. This Saturday should be busy, I plan on bringing my girls to the Chicago Air and Water show. Then later that night we are going to my friends b-day party. It should be a fun day. I think I am going to make Sunday a low key day and just stay around the house with my girls.
