Wish I could answer that. My H actually said to me this: "It's kind of like if your food is running out at home, what do you do?" Of course, I answered you go get more. He said that's how he felt. He needed to go elsewhere to get what he didn't think he was getting at home. Granted, I wish he would have taken the time to communicate that to me prior to breaking out the credit card, but, hey, like I said who knows what they're thinking.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10