What also would help is that I know that feelings can change over time. Just because I have no feelings for my H right now, doesn't mean I can't develop them again later.
Bless you for that. If you could bottle that and sell it, you'd be a wealthy person! I know I'd buy a bottle for my DH.
Thanks so much for your perspective. I think I'm in the faking-it-til-I-make-it stage, but I'm a natural at detachment, and I'm scared it'll kick in pretty quick. It's helpful to hear from someone who's been there.
