I am with Nomo on this. Detachment is good, but it also leads to a feeling of loss. The only feelings I have right now are for our kids. I think my W is there as well, but from the other side of the mirror, so to speak. She is becoming really focused on them, I think to avoid the guilt of her actions. I on the other hand, am mourning the end of their innocence.
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Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread