Madonna/Whore Complex (part 7)

[Heywyre]

(1) no I have never left him
(2) no, I wasn't on the MLC board
(3) you are not hogging my thread, feel free to make any comments you feel like
(4) easier to pull back from an alcoholic and make them responsible for their actions (i.e. cleaning up their own puke, dealing with the law etc.) but what will detaching do to make him responsible for his actions. Do I just withdraw and not do anything to try and save this M?
(5) I have stepped back, a long time ago. I refer to it as "taking back my power". It was pretty effective at the time but doesn't seem to be doing much at this point. There is only so much you can withdraw from. Do I stop being his wife? (i.e. cooking, cleaning etc.? after all, I have to live here too)