I am not sure if H saw the card but I think he did and did not even open it. At any rate, it is there on the table now.

Not sure what to make of ILs. They want me to bring D1.5 out to see them. I do care about his grandmother and she is old and said she wants to see me before she goes (she is like 95 now).

So maybe MIL is hoping that I won't take off and file? I don't know. I think she wants us to stay together but H will tell her his MLC lies and so who knows. I may be paranoid but maybe it's better to be paranoid.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D