well if the friend gave other positives that kept me interested in the friendship then i might be able to over look the fact i'm always inviting. But if this friend never does anything but comes along for the ride, i'd probably loose interest in the friendship and if another "friend" came along and acted more interested in me, i might slowly spend less time with disinterested friend and more time with interested friend.
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What if she has things going on in her life like children, busy job, etc. and while she might not find the time to call and reassure you that she loves playing she really DOES look forward to playing tennis with you? That's why she says yes when you invite her.
I have all those things and i still try to take the time to invest time into my friendships. If my friend invites me to dinner, then i will make the effort to invite her to do something the following week, call just to say hi etc.
