I have not been on the boards much. (duh!) I have been in a phase of introspection for some time now. It is a good thing. I have been feeling "at peace" more and more often lately.
My week at the Options Institute was so wonderful: "Radical Authenticity" and some really amazing people. No phones, computers, tv...ahhhhh.
I really love their philosophy and they way they say you can "make beliefs" according to how you want to live. I have been feeling much more in control the last few months and much less a victim.
I am going back in October to learn their dialoguing technique. I had 3 dialogue sessions while there that really opened my eyes to some funny and crazy beleifs about relationships and life that I had.... and did not even know it!!!
Anyway, that is the inner me stuff.
As for the rest:
My H is in Italy and Croatia with friends for over 2 weeks. I can see he is just pushing along... he really does not seem happy.
I told him that I might move to Japan. and I told him that I believed we would grow old together. That was a big move for me to say that. Glad I did though I might handle the wording a bit different now. No matter. I did it for me , not him.
Got a promotion at work. Nice but not a fan of my new boss. I have always worked well with her mainly because I did NOT report in to her. Ah well. Not planning on staying around that long anyway.
So that is my update. Nothing exciting. Oh, wait... just thought of something: this Sunday I am taking my first voice lesson!!!!!!!!!!! I have been wanting to learn how to sing for ages. I dont want to even sing well... just carry a tune and not feel like the notes are "stuck" in my throat!
big hug to all! I am still lurking even if I dont post much.
brava
Me: 36 He: 34 no kids Married: 2000 He left: July 05
