my H is with an ow who since we have known her in the last 5 years has been marriedto Rich, lived with Tony, had Rudy as a boyfriend and now lives with my H. I believe that in order for an affair to take place 2 things need to happen, there needs to be vunerability and opportunity. What was it that made you vunerable? While I believe that both people in a relationship have to own their parts is it your opinion that this is not about the LBS? I hear so much that this is not about us who are left behind that it is the choice of the WAS in how they deal or rather do not deal with their issues...thoughts?
