my crazy mess

[christarn]

Oh my latest news...the H text me last night, asking what I was going to do with the house that I bought...told him I was going to sell it...to which he responded he was going to sell his/our house...i asked why..said he couldn't afford it, but was waiting for us to make our decision before he made a final to decision as to selling. I told him the ball was in his court. He said you still want to work on things...I was like ya, hello!!...he said things are different now, you live 40 miles away, and it would be a lot of work...I said if it is in your heart anything is possible. He reminded me he couldn't afford to live alone, and that was really difficult for him right now, I replied I could help him gladly, but wanted to know if I was going to have a house to come home to...his next text was I think we need to talk in person soon. We are supposed to meet tomorrow and talk. I have a session set up with my DB coach first. To help me prepare. (back note, I asked him if he still had feelings because that would be core to us working on things...he said yes...but kept saying stuff is just way messed up now) any advice on how to approach him, that this is a workable situation would be much appreciated!! thanks