if she is thinking your with OW, then invite her and call or tet while your out to say you were thinking of her. Maybe even offer to bring her some food while your out? You can't stay at home always just because she doesn't trust you, that will backfire. My H is doing that now, and it drives me nuts that he is always at home. I know I know, damned if you do, damned if you don't. Pick the poison that you will enjoy the most.
