what do you want to do? take her out of the equation (I know, hard to do) and ask yourself if you are ready for this, if its what you want. make a pro/con list if it helps.
honestly, my thoughts are nobody is going to pressure me into D. If I decide to D, it will be because it is the right thing to do, a decision I come to, not because I felt pressured from H or a lawyer or friends/family. jmho here.
of course, the reality is, I think H will be filing/asking for a D by the end of september at the latest. but who knows. at this point, I'm not ready to do it. if you are ready to, if you have accepted it, well, that is a different story. I do understand wanting her to do it, though. I've told H he's going to have to tie this up with a neat little bow....its all him. he's wishing I would make it easy for him, but so far I'm not. but who knows what the future will bring.
good luck.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
