I have a question. My wife as you've read has repeatedly said she's done and she doesn't want to stay married. My lawyer's pressuring me to go ahead and get this over with. Part of me also wants to so I get closure and so that I can move on with things that are pending such as buying a new car/house etc. However, part of me says why should I make this easy for her...she should file. I know she'll do it on her own schedule but in the end does it really matter if I nudge the process along by filing the declaration of disclosure for example?
Me: 32|W: 34|D: 3yo 1st bomb: Feb 2006 (left one day, came back a week later) 2nd bomb: Aug 2006 (moved out, ILYBNILWY) 3rd bomb: Apr 2007 (filed for divorce) 4th bomb: <her finger on the launch button>
