MrsCAC,

1) I can always count on you to ask the tough questions.

Those tough question are what help me the most because I have to think through your sitch which isn't always easy either.

2) Did anyone ever tell you that you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar?

Yep, but I also found that honey doesn't always lead to growth. Plus your stuff is way too complicated to think through plus sugar coat.

3) Do you have an axe to grind?

Nope, I honestly enjoy the challenge of understanding these kinds of issues. It has helped my a LOT in my marriage.

4) Is there something about me that reminds you of your wife?

Yes, I sense some avoidance of intimacy in your latest post, plus some fear issues. I could be wrong. Generally I find Hairdog's wife reminds me more of my wife.


Cobra