I know what you mean. My h and kids are my life. Your h will realise what a mistake he has made. He has to do it. Nothing you do will help him through this. I learned a long time ago if you just leave them alone it is better. I was doing the same thing that you are right now and it only made things worse. It pushed my h way even farther. Don't make the same mistake.
Is there an ow involved? They are nasty and mean so they don't feel the guilt. They blame us for everything. I even got blamed for take out food being cold.
Where does the love go???? The answer is they shovel it down deep inside of themselves. My h is really coming around now. Just to let you know there is hope. Take care of yourself.
