I don't think I've ever had sex for validation. Ever. And I've been thinking REALLY HARD about this one.
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I've been thinking about it and can't come up with any way that a sex life with validation is better than a sex life without validation. Help me understand your perspective in which sex without validation is inferior.
In order to have sex... without it being an act of aggression, or rape... someone has to WANT to, or be willing to, have sex.
Now... I do understand CeMar's example... however, for her to even have sex, without CeMar forcing himself on her, indicates some form of willingness.
So. I'm not so sure this is about validation or willingness or desire. Mrs. CeMar is just pissed off... and she isn't seeing CeMar as 'Prince Charming' anymore. She is mirroring back to him, what she sees and feels... and he doesn't like what she is showing him.
In order for her to mirror back something else... CeMar is gong to have to BE something else.
