I read in horror ( A loooong read - My reconciliation Journal) that a W wants to leave her H and kids to take care of a mother and then parties with some hard-core party animals to boot.
If you go back to the Sex starved Marriage forum and read chocolateyes old threads, some or your situation sounds like his. Choc is now in the process of D.
He allowed his W to do what she wanted till she found someone else. No sex in a M isn't good for either one of you. Sometimes being kind and going along with her not feeling the love is not what you need to do.
LM start a thread so GGB's thread stays on track.
a poster that goes by the name of NOPkins might show up and give you some needed advice.
