Its the simplest answer to every MP. W's tend to see this as the way out not knowing how this decision destroy whatever R exists b/w H & W. My W said the same things you stated. Since I dont discuss the R, I have not been hearing these things rather I have been given many questions ie. why do I go to the mall, why do I spend so much time with the family, why, why why? This is definately good as compared to I hate you, I cannot trust you etc etc.
See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...
