Chrom That is not necessarily a problem, so long as her response to the instigation is loving and/or validating....instigate is only a problem if it is met with rejection on a frequent basis for no good reason. I agree with you Chrom.
Cemar compare this to YEARS ago when my wife would reach over and BLOW me while I am driving down the interstate. Maybe she did that because it was new and different. Maybe she was insecure and thought that is how to keep a guy. Maybe she did that because someone said that is a way to get a guy to like you. Maybe she did it for you and she didn't like that much but she wanted/liked something else from the R.
A W that spontaneously leans over and give you a BJ is a cool thing (never happened to me It never happened to me, but I did get a few HJ's.:)
I'm not saying you shouldn't strive for the cool stuff, but not having it doesn't make everything else bad. KWIM? Ditto.
