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PS. Given there was an OM, the other VERY OBVIOUS explanation for W's bad feelings around sex is simple guilt on her part. She got involved with OM again and felt crappy anytime you came near her.


I've thought about that, but chosen to believe my W. Wanted (want) to make this R work so what else could I really do?

I also think that even if that's not the case, and I really don't think it is, she has some level of guilt about what she did relative to me and had a hard time opening up to me. Granted, I didn't help, but I did try to talk to her about that and she wouldn't let me in. She's said over and over that she's not guilty, but I just have a gut feeling that she just has those emotions in max security lockdown.

BD

Last edited by Heimlich; 08/16/07 07:52 PM.

My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.