Hi Nomo,

You have given so much to everyone on this board and I can honestly say I feel the replies you are getting proves your value in this dreadful situation.

I think BD is pretty spot on and can't add anymore, just as a (recent) friend I am feeling for you.

I think to put it plainly you if you decide this is it you can truly look in the mirror and say I did my best and can face life in the future knowing this.

Although your still making progress and maybe this is the ultimate 180 which can work.

As my wife used to say to me when I was fat, chins up!

charlie


Me 39
W 39
D8
S5
Married 13yrs
Together 20years
EA June 06
Ilyninlwy Jan 07
Seperated Jan 07