Well we just had a conflicting conversation. She wants to divorce because she can't trust me and I still haven't solved our financial problems. She again stated that she cannot rely on me for financial stability. She said she begged me 1 1/2 years ago to do what I am doing now. According to her, I should have 3 jobs and although I am working hard to get jobs it is just not good enough. I should have a "Plan B".
She feels that I am making her out to be the "heavy" because the family is being broken up. Plus she feels that I am being indifferent when she talks about what she can take from the house. Her thoughts are that she has to ask permission to take items for her new apt. Also I give her an attitude when she wants money for stuff.
She says she has given this decision a lot of thought and she must get divorced because she can't count on me or trust me and that the trust can never be regained. In her eyes, I had plenty of chances to fix this problem and I didn't. She says that there is still no solution sine I don't have 3 jobs to pay the bills.
I told her that I want to fight to keep our family together. She is past the point of no return. No faith, no trust, no future together since she cannot count on me. Of course, the financial problems are not solved. She also is angry that she has to move out to an apt.in her parents house and be responsible for the kids while I am free to go about my life.
I am not sure if she is angry or selfish? She is mad at me for what has happened and now it is my fault that she has to live in a small apt. and handle the kids while I still live in our house.
Why is it so easy to think that divorce is the answer?
Me: 41 W: 40 D5, S4 Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007 Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007
