You can conclude "I'm beautiful" with or without a partner.

You can hypothesize "I'll bet I'd be a great fcuk" without a partner.

You can only conclude "I AM a great fcuk" if you have had a partner.

Burg's question is "can you have sex without validation?"

I'm saying, "You can get your sexuality validated without 'sex,' but you can't get your fcukability validated without fcuking."