I think this is very clear-- validation or no validation, when you're talking about fcuking, you have to have someone to play with.

Which goes right back to Burgbud's question, doesn't it?

Is it any less enjoyable to play tennis if you called your friend to play tennis instead of them calling you to play tennis? Isn't the point that you are playing tennis?

I think it seems in Cemar's case he would not enjoy playing tennis unless his tennis partner was the one to ask him to play otherwise he would not have validation he seeks from his tennis partner.




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