BTDT. I lost a LOT of weight during my whole sitch.
Love ya, babe, you need to get back to DB'ing. We aren't weak I don't think. But we do need to draw the line somewhere. Like I've said, my line is that if he cheats again, he's gone and I think that is primarily b/c I can't imagine that if I allowed him to do it again that he would be able to respect me any longer. We all have to look at our own specific sitch and figure out what is best in our particular sitch.
Hopefully, when you go to lunch w/ him tomorrow he will tell you what it is he is thinking and what it is he is planning on doing from here.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10