You went over the hour so you really didn't have time to get into more. I actually think it was good that you set a positive tone with your C. Now, when you go back, you have more topics to discuss.
Couple things.
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Let her know that things will workout is getting tough, as it seems like it doesn’t detach and steers to wanting to talk about R.
You told your W this at the restuarant. You got a smile. Let it go at that. You don;t want to be overbearing with any of these topics.
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Courting my W – now there is a good one – she is at the cottage 5 days a week, and when I am there she won’t spend 5 minutes with me, when she does come home she will so anything to get out of the house –so how do you court someone when they are not around or they do not want to be with you ?
Good question which C will have much better inpit than any of us here. But my thinking says don't force it. Courtship requires someone being open to courtship. So this is a tough one. Go with the experts. You might ask for examples. But everyone is different. Actually, I was thinking that finding a way to get her to on the trip might be a good move. It leaves a happy feeling and it gets you away from each other.
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Communication – that is even a better one – maybe I should try smoke signals – conversations are bout 5 sentence long.
And I sdo believe this is to be expected at this point. Again, build on the last C session and get more specific. In a way, I think your W has to come to you. But keep in mind you can't force.
