quote=thegoodfight]All I can say is if that is what one truely believes than that is the way it will be. But if you believe overtime one can let go of pain and learn to forgive you can move mountains. If you hold on to the pain and anger it just eats at the R. [/quote]
I wish it was that easy to let go of the past. I'm still so very bitter about past relationship problems that i dont know how to let it go. Mostly for my own protection. You know the saying "fool me once , shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me" I can't let go, because i'm constantly on edge that he is going to "fool me" and revert to his old behavior, and i'll be so busy trying to make things work that i'm not going to see i'm being made of fool of. Of course then the question becomes "If i can't relax and trust you, why stay with you?"
