One another note, when we do communicate it is her that brings up the past and says it can't be fixed. I have said, I know lets move forward, I can't change what has happened I can only work for today and tomorrow. I can only make things better for the future, I can't make today better and I can't take away the pain from the past.
She says that is the problem it will always be there! All I can say is if that is what one truely believes than that is the way it will be. But if you believe overtime one can let go of pain and learn to forgive you can move mountains. If you hold on to the pain and anger it just eats at the R. like cancer.
In a nutshell that is what has been going on! It has been worse over the last 2.5 months and just as a coincedence this is also the period of time she had quadrupled her phone calls to her friend. It is a real bitch, guilty or not to have someone or something seemingly impairing progress all the time. But ironically I take comfort in knowing I made this bed and now I have to sleep in it. Alas poetic justice.
Last edited by thegoodfight; 08/16/0706:28 PM.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
