because we read Nicholas Sparks books and believe movies and tv.
blechhhhhhhhhhhh
we forget that we are the writers, directors and actors in the movie of our life.
we want other people to do some of the stuff
it's all about guilt and years of piling up crap instead of chucking it out when it 1st comes up
YES. And why should we have to ask. Why should I have to say I want you home more often? That crap wouldn't fly if it were reversed. I HATE THE DOUBLE STANDARDS!!!!!! Why didn't he WANT to spend the time with me, blah blah.......
I've been to a bar 4 times since January. He's been God knows to how many bars, parties, casinos......passed out on couches at God knows whose house, in beds with friends and their wives and I"M made to feel like I'M a bad person because I've been to a bar 4 times since January.
Well guess what buddy. I couldn't go before because I was babysitting for you.......and you didn't ask me along, or arrange a sitter, or even want to come home early to spend time with me.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...