I took my ring off for similar reasons. With D mediation today, it just didn't feel right to wear any longer. It's a symbol of a love that's no longer there. I hope to one day be able to put it back on, but, for now it was more a source of anxiety than of a symbol of committment to the M. I'm sure it's different for different people.

DL, sure, she's proceeding with the D. If you're still in love with her, don't give up. She may change her mind. Our mediator today mentioned that a few of his clients have stopped the D process and gotten back together and are happy. You just don't know.

BD


My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.