Am I seperated? Looking for support/advice...

[Heimlich]

Saving,

Def Lep, awesome. Like being in high school again (well, for me anyway).

Don't listen to your friends. I can hear my family and friends kindof thinking "Why the hell are you still hanging on to hope/even open to making this work?" It still feels right. As long as you haven't given up, just ask your friends for support or to at least not disagree. This is hard enough without active verbal discouragement.

You're doing a better job than I did of giving your H space. Keep it up. Let the train thing go. Keep having fun and focusing on yourself because that's best for your M now. He might come around, he might not. Once you really understand that, it gets a little easier, though not easy.

You read about my last few days, don't do any of that
BD