I am not sure what the right answer is w.r.t the ring. I know that for me, it is something that I needed to take off b/c my H took his off. It was a symbol of our marriage which I no longer feel is there & like you, I would feel dishonest wearing it. For me, I would not want to wear it unless he wants me to wear it. That is the only way it means something to me - otherwise it just becomes a piece of jewelry.
