hey VC, I sure hope my sitch isnt' making you think this way, he could very well just be "in his cave" for now, and seems distant.
============ I had a boyfriend hiding somewhere. I said did you really think I did? And he said yes, did you? I said no, never =========== Ha! did you know my H (back in the first separation) installed cameras to spy on me? yup, he said that he saw me dressing nice (had lost weight and got new clothes) he thought I was bringing someone home, all the while he was seeing ow!
====== little detachment is in order. I am not being mean, but I am holding myself back some. ====== as long as it is to clear your mind, I understand you (I used to try that too, a bit, not kissing him hello when he came home, he never did notice) Just don't deny affection to try him, it doesnt' work, it just makes us miserable, affection is our -women- language.
Don't undermine the progress you've achieved hon.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
