Cat, just letting you know I'm thinking of you. I know the "not knowing" is the worst. I'm glad though that you have the self control to not call or contact him. You have to stay strong and make him fight & work for you! He's got to decide what he wants and he needs to do that on his own w/ no persuasion from you either way.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10