I also imagine if I asked *why* he is finally doing these things *now* he would say that he is trying to be independent and make a life for himself. (that is what he said about volunteering.)
Interesting/irritating that he already said that about volunteering.
but... he also invited you to volunteering, and you blew that one. (although you might recover on that one sometime in the future, maybe) Try again, just inquring on the "why camping now", line, and see how it goes
also, remember that the reason he SAYS why he is doing something... isnt neccessarily the truth. Or, it may be only half the truth. or...
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I don't know why I am bothering to stand. I feel completely hopeless.
A counsellor told me: this kinda stuff isnt a sprint. it's a marathon. you have to pace yourself.
Sounds like you're worn out after some sprinting. take a breather.
Last edited by Dom R; 08/16/0704:59 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
