I hear you bro. BF is enabling her to not really hurt (same sitch for my W). She'll get there one day, but who knows when that will be and where you will be. I like to think that even if we do D, and she figures things out 6,8,10 months later and wants to revisit us, that I will be willing. BUt I have no idea where I will be and if I wil lhave found someone. I'm scared taht i'll always compare women to her. For that, I feel resentment towards W. We are allowed to feel this way about W and M. What is happening hurts, when we hirt we feel all sorts of things including anger. You need to feel that, don;t let it consume you, but let yourself feel these things. Of course, you know this. You're doing fine. Keep venting anytime!
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