He does feel exposed and told the therapist that he felt "ganged up on". It is getting to the core now and he is feeling more and more uncomfortable with the situation and truely doesn't know how to handle it. When I read the article on ISTDP it was H to a "T". He has lived with burying his feelings for so long he really doesn't have a clue that he is even doing it - thus the response I get almost on a daily basis "I am who I am, why can't you just accept that"
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)