Hey Dis, Sounds like that was OK. You know your sitch and W better than us. I think it was probably good you at least waited, then acknowledged. And it obviously was since she again responded. My W would not respond, so I had to stop pushing. None of this shoudl seem like a game, if it does, then yes, something you're doing is not right. I too read what you quoted. It is helping me to understand the detachment process. It si to help us and our emotions, not a means to get her to notice. That's what GAL and act as if do, but not b/c we try. Those help us build ourselves and love ourselves. The W response is a possible side effect that she notices you're happier. But remember you are doing those things for your own happiness. You can not control hers. Well done, sounds like you feel good about the morning, nothing wrong if you feel good!
Me 32 WAW 30 D Bomb 7/9 Separated 7/15 Reiterated bomb 8/12 PA 8/21 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1198643
