Hey Andyv,
NEVER say you would do something until it happens, as I have said in the past. I always said "I WOULD THROW MY W OUT
IN THE STREET OF SHE CHEATED ON ME" and here I am.
Do what feels right; don’t let pride ruin your life. Things may still work out for you and if they do you will be a stronger person because of all of this.
If you are meant to be together it will happen it not the then think of all of the things you have learned and your next R will be a strong healthy one.
It's strange how your sitch and mine are at completely different stages and still we are both going through the same emotions.

Great to hear from you.

Husband

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know