I don't think that Puffy would of left, if it wasn't for the HO.
I think the validation she gave/gives is like candy for a kid.
I am not being conceited but I have been hit on while things were good with Puffy, and while things were not so good with puffy. I think The thought of my kids always crossed my mind, and the fact that I could never disrespect puffy like that.
I do have a female friend that had an affair. Her H just checked out of the marriage, he would not speak to her. He just checked out. Someone gave her attention, and she went for it.
It lasted a while, I didn't know until after she did it.
I felt different towards her, I didn't talk to her for a while, I was shocked.
Now, I understand her better. I don't agree with it, but I am not so quick to judge, if that makes sense?
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why can't people stop before they go off the cliff?
I think they don't see the cliff. They see the pretty picture above the cliff, they have not seen the big drop. They don't want to see the big drop.
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Why is the affair the easier choice?
Maybe b/c of the thrill? The thrill was easier than sitting down with your spouse of how ever many years and saying Hey, wassup with us?
And to think ,that, that dumb thrill, throws even the smartest of people for a loop.
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