LP - I think he has stepped up to the plate, in the only way he knows how. Unfortunately, it is not enough. You cannot fix what you don't see - and he just doesn't see "it".

I am hoping (and I believe this is our last resort) that he takes the ST suggestion and goes to this other guy. However, unless he is willing to build an alliance with the therapist and REALLY work to find out what drives him, there is no hope for our M. There is nothing more I can do, my part, for the time being, is over with

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)