heya.. quick post-n-run:

1. yeah, definately dont make things TOO easy for him. good idea \:\)

2. if he is officially "living over there".. no way he should have free run of your house. that is waaay "too easy on him". You might even consider changing the locks, if you want to blow the money. That would shake him up.

3. Men are stupid \:D There's a reason he's doing all these things now, that you have been asking for. I say: ask him why.
Dopnt make it too wide and vague: you'll get the best progress with most men, if you ask specific questions, that they can give you specific answers for. Ask him why he's going camping now, when you wanted to go camping with him for a long time.
Maybe start by expressing *general* interest, that you've always liked camping, both cabin based and tent based. yet at the same time, dont "directly" ask to come along.

This shouldnt need saying, but you didnt seem to catch on last time, so.. ;\)

IF HE INVITES YOU, GO WITH HIM
\:D


Be warned, though.. there is a potential he is going camping with another woman. (Who the hell goes camping alone?!)
Asking him about that, point blank, will get you nowhere, so dont do it. If he was, he'd just lie. But if you get to see what he's taking... try to notice things that dont make sense for only one person.


PS: on the "should you ask if he's dating anyone else, if he asks you out?" question: I'd say yes, ask.
When he says no, then "ok, then I accept". (if it sounds like a nice date ;\)


Last edited by Dom R; 08/16/07 04:11 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle