Trudging up hill

[ediemarie]

Hi LS - thanks. You're right. I do feel like he should quit and I also feel like it's a drastic thing to do. But then sleeping with an OW is a drastic thing to do too and there are consequences for actions. I'm not trying to punish him per se, I just want all of this to be behind us. And I have connected OW and his job into one entity - whether that is right or not, I see them as one in the same - I guess because they share a classroom?? More than that it is because he has said that his work is where he gets all of his fulfillment in life. Which has been an issue in our marriage as it (the M and me) hasn't really been a priorty - at least that's how I see it. That being said, I can imagine that quitting the one thing that you find fulfillment in would be next to impossible. But she is wrapped up in that fulfillment.

No movement on him making the call to Retrouvaille. The brochure and registration form came in the mail today along with a note from the host couple saying that H had to call BEFORE we could even register - I'm so annoyed. I handed the note to my H and put the other information on the mail table. Time keeps on ticking...ticking...ticking...

crazy days!!

EM

THanks for the encouragment Amy and LWB - I appreciate it!