I wish I can use the LRT but my D is too young to understand that. Therefore, I dont bring up the R. All I am doing is keeping a positive attitude. I dont even imagine EA with W. I see myself with W and having a new child in our lives. If your W feels so terrible about divorving and separating then why would she want to leave and break up the family.

This is where divorce has a negative effect since your D is aware of situation. I feel pity for your D it must terrible for her right now. But dont rush to judgement on W, let her think of it.

Wishing you all the best!!!

See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...