Well yesterday was NOT a good day. It was our last session with the ST (at least for a while - October, maybe) because he feels he has taken us as far as he possibly can at this point.

He feels our marriage is definitely salvageable and knows we both love each other but says the R is still "very shaky" and unless both people are willing to work together, there's not a chance it will survive.

He also told H that he felt I was giving it my all emotionally and physically to try and save this M but that H was resisting to the point there was nothing else he could do. ST felt H really didn't want to do anything about it

Our only other alternative is ST referred H (only) to who he considers to be a "more experienced" psychologist in the field of "Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy" (if anyone is interested, you can read up about it here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intensive_s...achment_Trauma)

So, for the time being, it's out of my hands and, quite frankly, I am about to throw in the towel anyway. I am getting to the point where I am just to exhausted to fight, or even care, anymore


Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)