However I'm becoming more convinced that the bed department is where the main action is for the H. Someone told me years ago when we discussed R and men :Act like the OW.
I thought it was funny at the time, ridiculous. But I'm not laughing now.
I totally agree with this. To keep me away from OW do the things I would like be done onto me from OW. Say the things I want to hear. Then I would have no interests in OW and focus on the woman that I come home to. As a man, this is what I look for in OW. I look for things that my W dont give to me and so leads me astray from her.
For example, if I love seeing cleavage. Then W should wear clothing that shows cleavage. If I like seeing W in thongs underwear, then W should wear them. It goes the same way for a woman. If my W like for me to wear my hair short, then why should I let it grow long. If my W dont like my drinking, then why should I do so. This one is a major goal I have set for the rebuilding of the R. It has been almost 60 days since I have been sober.
I am doing the things W would like to see and I feel so good about doing so. I set priorties for family time over anything else.
See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...
