Well said, well done! You are on the right track, and the proof is in pudding. The fact that you had no fear in speaking with your H. That alone is a sign that you are on the right track. And his response, staying home for the weekend, he knows he's OFF track. He knows on thin ice.
I think the most loving, most supportive, most helpful thing you could do at this point is to pick up a brochure from a Rehab., or better yet drive him there.
God Bless You Ali,
COG
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