No, not necessary. You will be giving him what he missed all through the R. This is good cause intimacy leads to romance which leads to rebuilding. If you see H wants to do it just to see you and not being a little romantic then it may differ. I have to LOL at this advise Im giving you now. Say you are so romantic and intimate, then you put a hicki on him. H goes back to OW and OW finds this hicki on H. What will happend? Do you care? Does it shows you that you have power over H?

Think of it but dont do that immediately. For your other question, my answer is NO you are not giving out too much info. My W would love for me to go down there but I didnt since 'she was not that kind of woman and I got her embarassed.' But now, if given the chance, that will all be done without second thoughts. Too much info MMH - lmao.

See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...